I'm not one for "kiss and tell," but my granddaughter, Kylie, just gave me the biggest hug and kiss. It's the very first time, I've been hugged by a grandchild...it absolutely melted my heart! Abigail....you're next!!!
I found this photo on-line of Tabb and I last Christmas!!! Each Christmas day we go to the hospital and take photos with families in the NICU and in the Rehab hospital. While the kids are busy playing with "stuff" in the afternoon, we sneak away and enjoy one of the most tender experiences we've had the blessing of being a part of. As the Mom of a child who has a long-term chronic illness, I now feel so much more empathy for the parents of my patients. I truly understand what it is to worry about your child's future, what it's like to have long days of back and forth to the hospital, to wrack your brain about how to help your child get through a crisis when you have to depend on others to have the solution, to balance the needs of your other children and your job, and what it's like to deal with set backs and the roller coaster of emotions. As I've said before, I feel enormously blessed to work at WakeMed. My co-workers are an amazing group of talented, compassionate, and committed people who go above and beyond in caring for patients and their families. During Melissa's illness, my co-workers, family, and Church friends have surrounded us with strength and support. Can you imagine what it would be like for people who don't have support!! Our hospital is raising funds to expand our Children's services, including the NICU I work in - if you want to know more about how you can make a difference in the lives of children and their families go to: www.childrencantwait.org
Melissa is back in the hospital. As a family, we recognize the great strength that comes through perserverance. She's a tough little girl, but this journey is terribly difficult. One of my favorite hymn's "Let Us All Press On" has been in the forefront of my mind. Tabb is a pillar of strength right now, and me....I'm bordering on tears and determination. Things will improve...she has come so far and needs a chance to catch her breath!! I can't wait for September...football games here we come.....I've got our camping trip in the works. Would love to take the kids to the D.C. Temple and show them around the Smithsonian's!
Sonny (Audrey's close friend from childhood) and Audrey (My Mother in-law) came to visit last weekend. We had such a good time. We have seen Sonny and Audrey three times this summer. I wish we all lived closer. * Sonny taught Audrey how to drive when she was in school. Daniel, Robin, and Abigail were also there, but for some reason I didn't get the camera out to take pictures before they left. Kylie got some special attention from Great Grandma. Kylie loved the sweet potatoes at Golden Corral!!