Sunday, September 12, 2010

A Little R&R

Katie testing out the wireless connection at the Condo.....she's in heaven!

Melissa taking a nap....she loves being at Virginia Beach. I guess the sound of the ocean makes her sleepy....wish I could take a nap!!!


Got my P.J.'s on, brunswick stew and grilled cheese for dinner! Let the vacation begin....thank you Mom Clements! I really, really needed this time away. Miss you Tabb and boys!

Melissa's home from the hospital!! She's tired, but doing well. Melissa came home in time to Track Out from school. For all of you not familiar with Raleigh's confusing year round school schedule - my children go to school for 9 weeks and "track out" for 3 weeks. It has worked well for them. At least we're all used to it by now.

I'm fortunate enough to have vacation this week; so my wonderful mother in-law is letting us stay at her condo in Virginia Beach. It's a beautiful time to be at the beach. The tourists are mostly gone and the weather will be in the 70's and 80's all week with sunny skies. We plan on walking alot, enjoying the beach, and maybe fitting in some bicycle riding and a trip to the Science museum. However...these grand plans may not work ..... it all depends on Melissa's energy level. Whatever we do, it will be wonderful to be together. I have a bus load of school work ahead of me this week. I need to write 4 literature reviews for my nursing research class and prepare for a math exam. On top of that, I need to keep the wheels moving in Raleigh on the NICU reunion coming up on October 2nd. There's never a moment to relax. I'll be honest....having things to do that keep my mind busy has helped tremendously this past year. Somehow I've managed to stay afloat, but not without a lot of prayer and support from family and friends. Have you ever noticed that you are far more efficient when you're busy? When I'm bored, I lack motivation. So...I guess that the Lord, in his infinite wisdom, knew I needed a full plate or I'd become a total slacker!

Interesting note: each time we come to Virginia Beach something not so good happens. Let's see: 1) Cory's appendix rupturing and having emergency surgery; 2) the battery on my car dying because the kids forgot to unplug the various computer game stuff from the car. 3) contracting a flu bug on day 2 of vacation. 4) Katie's little finger getting slammed in the frame of a door (blown shut by the wind). 5) And today's adventure....we arrived at the Condo and the office forgot to leave a key. So we drove around VA Beach waiting for the key to arrive. After getting the key, we made two trips up to the 9th floor to bring up our stuff. On the way back down I dropped the keys to the condo down the elevator shaft! How did I do something SO stupid....I was reaching across Melissa to help hold the elevator door open for her and (in slow motion) we both watched the keys tumble to the edge of the gap between the door and the shaft. I told her not to move and I gently reached down to pick up the keys....I'm not sure why, but the keys started to tumble down all 9 floors. Melissa started laughing and I quickly said: "Don't tell Dad." She made a bee line for the cell phone and called her Dad with lightening speed - the little traitor! So tomorrow morning I get to go to the front desk and apologize for being such a klutz! I hope this is the last "problem" of our trip, but if the past is any indicator.......

Enjoy the photos of our first night at the beach.




Monday, August 23, 2010

One Big Kiss!!


I'm not one for "kiss and tell," but my granddaughter, Kylie, just gave me the biggest hug and kiss. It's the very first time, I've been hugged by a grandchild...it absolutely melted my heart! Abigail....you're next!!!


Saturday, August 21, 2010

Love this Photo


I found this photo on-line of Tabb and I last Christmas!!! Each Christmas day we go to the hospital and take photos with families in the NICU and in the Rehab hospital. While the kids are busy playing with "stuff" in the afternoon, we sneak away and enjoy one of the most tender experiences we've had the blessing of being a part of. As the Mom of a child who has a long-term chronic illness, I now feel so much more empathy for the parents of my patients. I truly understand what it is to worry about your child's future, what it's like to have long days of back and forth to the hospital, to wrack your brain about how to help your child get through a crisis when you have to depend on others to have the solution, to balance the needs of your other children and your job, and what it's like to deal with set backs and the roller coaster of emotions. As I've said before, I feel enormously blessed to work at WakeMed. My co-workers are an amazing group of talented, compassionate, and committed people who go above and beyond in caring for patients and their families. During Melissa's illness, my co-workers, family, and Church friends have surrounded us with strength and support. Can you imagine what it would be like for people who don't have support!! Our hospital is raising funds to expand our Children's services, including the NICU I work in - if you want to know more about how you can make a difference in the lives of children and their families go to: www.childrencantwait.org




The Journey Continues.....


Melissa is back in the hospital. As a family, we recognize the great strength that comes through perserverance. She's a tough little girl, but this journey is terribly difficult. One of my favorite hymn's "Let Us All Press On" has been in the forefront of my mind. Tabb is a pillar of strength right now, and me....I'm bordering on tears and determination. Things will improve...she has come so far and needs a chance to catch her breath!! I can't wait for September...football games here we come.....I've got our camping trip in the works. Would love to take the kids to the D.C. Temple and show them around the Smithsonian's!

Saturday, August 14, 2010

Daniel and Abigail


Thanks Grandma in California (but technically in NV) for the pictures of Daniel - love the collage of Daniel and Abigail!!

Hot Dog Days At Ace Hardware


A Wonderful Visit



Sonny (Audrey's close friend from childhood) and Audrey (My Mother in-law) came to visit last weekend. We had such a good time. We have seen Sonny and Audrey three times this summer. I wish we all lived closer. * Sonny taught Audrey how to drive when she was in school. Daniel, Robin, and Abigail were also there, but for some reason I didn't get the camera out to take pictures before they left. Kylie got some special attention from Great Grandma. Kylie loved the sweet potatoes at Golden Corral!!